do i have to slap a bitch?

my boss is driving me nuts. i didn't think much of it, but this past sunday he stole my dinner server to go to milwaukee, cutting him out 4 hours early... granted sunday's are normally pretty slow in the dining room and 2 servers would have normally been enough... it wasn't. in no way shape or form. if the guy would have thought about it even a little, he would have realized it was the last weekend before school started and no matter what the previous weekend had brought, we were going to be busy. on top of all of this, he never once asked lower boss or i if it was alright that he do such a thing. scum. right?

on top of this wonderful move, he has been scheduling himself to cut out early on game days. considering one of the stipulations of taking over this store was that he had to work every game day, through the game.

he has also had a year to move me up, or at least train me on things to move me up. i haven't moved an inch in a year and now my raise isn't any higher than last year. talk about ripping me off. and it's not like i haven't been asking for more responsibility. i have, believe you, me. in fact i have so much as started to train myself in the hopes of someone catching on to the fact that i am training myself... nope. nothing. took a step back. it frustrates me more to watch someone who was hired after me, trained after me, and promoted after me taking steps up the ladder. not that they don't deserve it, they do. but why the heck don't i? i know i do, i know i should be worked with... something makes me feel like it's personal. like because i don't complain about anything and work my butt off means i want to stay in the same position for the rest of my life. if you are going to keep me in this position at least have the courtesy to pay me for it. i hate waiting around for someone who doesn't give a shit about me. and yes, i do think the store has gone down hill since the previous management. there is no control and there is WAY to much favoritism being played out...

anyone have any suggestions for me? i love the work, i hate my management team...